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Thursday June 11, 2026
24 days to my birthday

on a trip, Luray VA!

Greetings Thinkers,

The fabric softener has moved to my face. My upper lip. I keep raising it to smell it.

The mouse poop has moved from the bottom drawer to the top of the counter. Little droppings in front of the microwave and little claw marks in the butter this morning.

Duck has finally pooped. 3 times to my 1 bag on our walk this morning.

We ran out of coffee, there was never salt. There was a hot tub we did not get in.

Today is the leave day, the drive back day.

We watched movies and enjoyed the space. This was not the kind of trip where you go somewhere to go other somewheres. Not here to sight see or visit the area attractions. We drove here to be together, to spend time together, to talk and exist in this life for a few days, just us. How often do you do that with the people you love?

So when I say we drove 2 hours to meet in the middle and barely left the house or "did anything", if you think that sounds like a boring, weird, not lovely trip, you'd be wrong about this.

Today we will enjoy what's left of the morning together. We will do the list and leave this house, better than we found it. We will close the door, make sure it's locked, and take a long hug in the driveway, feeling like the time is always too short but so grateful to have it, to have made it.

What trip are you on today?

🔺

KG

What am I doing with the rest of my 41st year?
24 days to my birth day.

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standouts / other thoughts

for my Christmas in July party -
"Her colors are blush and bashful.”
“Her colors are pink and pink.”

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word of the day

Ouiser Boudreaux "Weezer" - from Steele Magnolias - The character name itself feels like a word. It's unusual, prickly, memorable, and has become almost synonymous with a lovable curmudgeon

Use it: I want to be a Weezer! maybe I already am!

quote(s) to consider

"Time marches on and sooner or later you realize it is marchin' across your face.” ~Steele Magnolias

Energy to you.

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Things you could know about me:

order: newest adds at the top, older things at the bottom

vague. I don't like vague. don't be vague with me, I won't be vague with you. at least not on purpose.

defines WEIGHT as: the quality of the quantity of matter you are carrying

I like to antagonize common sayings and typical perspectives

Everything is a choice and authenticity is supreme.

Reflecting on my life whether it's looking back at the last month or doing a "this time last year" thing, shorter or longer time frames, doing this at all is a reflection of who I am. That I care to consider who I am, who I have been, what I have done, so that I may use all of that to inform what I do and who I am in the present and the future. That I reflect is a reflection of who I am.

running with turtles

I know, I'm a horror to say anything to some times..

when all my identities are umbrellas

I love a good double negative!

Plan in quotes because I'm so averse to "plans" and "goals".

I chunk out my days, to the minute, in Gcal.

I love to putter so if it becomes "I puttered my life away" so be it.

I'm not a cherry picker, of anything. I like to use things that exist rather than start from new or scratch.

I am an ostrich about politics, news, current events, pop culture and media.

I dislike clichés and most positive quotes, under thought things meant well, commonly said quotes and phrases.

Don't tell me what to do, don't ask me "how how are you?" or say "I'm sorry for your loss" unless you want to annoy me or you really, really mean it. And know it can be hard to tell which it is, and I'm wrong not infrequently.

30 Day Challenges are my thing. I have a tendency to make things every day things. This is where 30 Day Challenges come from!

Like yourself. Know yourself. Express that self.
Think about things. Don't feel like you have to dance in the rain to have a good life.
Don't have a plan. Stand for what matters. Read when you want to. Don't smile when people tell you to.
Don't have goal. Tend plants. Leave marks. Do what you say. Change YOUR world. And your mind!
Be a friend and a daughter and a partner and a sister and a dog mom.
In a world full of "accept who you are" messages, don't forget to be a "work on that" kind of person.
Don't put kindness above truth. Try new things. Be honest. Live by ideals. Have some whimsy.
What you do for money matters; strive to like what you do for money. (job)
If you have a hobby you need a life.
Use what attracts you and let what you care about matter!

Peepers are my favorite sound.

Triangles are my favorite shape.

54 is my number.

I never need to talk but thank you for offering to listen.

If you say I'm overthinking it, I'll probably say you are underthinkig it.

why I do what I do: I want to "make you" THINK. I don't mind if your experience and perception of me "makes you" be more mindful, use your brain more, "think too much" or consider something more carefully, or differently, or moves you to be (more) thoughtful or intentional or authentic.

I am a hugger and I mean my hugs.

I don't like to have scheduled things. The days where I have something scheduled are a certain category of feeling. I'm not very fond of pre sign ups, committing to things in advance externally. My favorite days are the ones I call "blank slate days". Nothing scheduled, nothing formally EXTERNALLY committed (I am full of internal commitment and ideas all the time, so no day is truly uncommitted).

use the moons

I love rules and I am a ruler follower.

I like a cup to fill.

So which is it Kym. Do you like wide open clean slate no commitment things?
Or you "need" want and thrive in containers, defined spaces, rules and limits?

Geez what a walking contradiction. A biggest when to which Witch!?

SOC life - what you allow in, turns into what you spend your time on. Can you see it?

Tomb raider hot is my favorite kind of girl hot, my favorite hot to be.

Resources

A link list for quick and easy clicking.

• Exhibit: the: "how do you decide what you do and don't express" doozy
• ​Kymology,com
• ​Substack​
• ​Kymology Youtube​
• what does it mean when Kym sends you a triangle (put a LINK here KG!)

Thank you for being here. Energy to you. 🔺
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Ciao for now!

KG

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